WHY MEN CHEAT by Oliver Jones

veggielova — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 02:16:14 +0000

The Reason Why Men Cheat:

A man tells all.

I have a few thoughts that I’d like to share about the above title and I would like to get some feedback from any women or men who happen to read this.

I don’t know why so many women get all worked up when it comes to trying to understand why men cheat. Many women know deep down that their boyfriend or husband is out there cheating with another woman when she’s not around. Even if a woman tries to make herself believe that he’s not cheating, she knows that he is or that he eventually will. Eighty percent (80%) or more of all men cheat, it’s a fact, unfortunate, but still a fact. Most women want to think that it’s not their man that’s cheating. Truth of the matter is, her man is either screwing somebody at his job, an old girlfriend, his neighbor, a so called “female friend,” or maybe just someone he met while sitting in his car waiting for the traffic light to turn green.

Many women have often asked “How do you keep your man from cheating?” In my opinion, it’s a smart thinking kind of woman who’s best able to keep her man’s attention and keep him from having sex with other women. Women who think like men when it comes to relationships are the best at keeping their man happy and faithful to them. These same women know how to and what to do to keep their man focused on them and happy at all times. She keeps him so happy that he loves doing whatever he can for her and most likely he wont ever cheat. Problem is, most woman (damn near all) don’t know how or they refuse to do what it takes to keep their man happy and focused on them. What does it take you ask? Well here are a few examples;

1. SEX

She gives him more sex than he could ever think of wanting. She pulls whatever freak and erotic behavior out of herself to keep him turned on whenever she has an opportunity. Basically, she keeps his attention on her and she keeps his balls drained at the same time. As men, we love sex and lots of it.

2. FOOD

She feeds him good! This is so important, because as men, once we’re full we usually will want to kick back at home with our woman and do something real simple. After a good meal we’re more prone to have good conversation, listen to our woman’s problems/concerns and more likely to be in agreement with our woman or at least be willing to sit down and work out a solution. If a woman can’t cook she should at least learn to make 2 of his favorite dishes and order out the other nights.

3. SPORTS

She learns about the hobbies or sports that he likes so she can watch or participate with him instead of complaining about him and his favorite past times. When a woman watches sports or takes up a hobby with her man he will really open up to her even more. He’ll brag about her to all his friends and insist on doing special things for her.

4. WHINING & COMPLAINING

She doesn’t ever, and I mean never ever, whine. Whining and constantly complaining over small (but what women think are big) problems is one of the worst things a woman can do! She by no means should let her man run over her, but whining about a situation is down right bad! What she does instead is bring things to his attention and if she thinks that he’s forgot she’ll find nice ways to remind him.

5. MORE SEX

Coming back to sex. A woman can’t start off doing everything to her man in bed and as time goes by (months/years) she starts to tell him how she’s not into doing that anymore (sexual act) and how she doesn’t like doing that anymore. What the f%ck is this? Hell, that’s part of what made him like her in the first place and now that she has him she wants to hold back on doing certain sexual positions, giving oral sex, doing it in other fun places and not just doing it in the bed. When a woman starts to get bored with having sex and it’s not because her man isn’t bringing like he use to, and she starts acting like an old maid, she is sure to run her man to another woman. She has to keep the sex live and exciting!!!

6. MAKE HIM FEEL NEEDED!

This one is real important!!! She strokes his ego. Any smart woman knows that as men we have some big ass egos. A MAN HAS TO FEEL NEEDED. When a woman tells a man how much she thinks he’s all this or all that, tells him how much she loves it when he does whatever it is that he does. When she expresses how much she loves the way he fixes a car, the way he dresses, helps with the kids, how me makes love to her and anything else related to what he does well, he will feel like a million bucks and fall deeper in love with his woman. When a woman strokes a mans ego she’s more than 80% there when it comes to totally having him on lock down with her, now all she has do is 1 – 5 (above).

RULES TO DATING ONE’S SELF

veggielova — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 01:20:00 +0000

ENJOYING LIFE TO THE FULLEST WITHOUT COMPROMISING

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WHY MEN CHEAT by Oliver Jones

RULES TO DATING ONE’S SELF